tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post4174404139506808995..comments2023-10-23T10:07:10.557-07:00Comments on Friends of Hollis Hawthorne: New Info on Hollis:Agent Chaoshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00025307350511393233noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-3591876533296460962011-08-27T06:09:25.272-07:002011-08-27T06:09:25.272-07:00Emensuits give discount for all their suits produc...Emensuits give discount for all their suits products such as [<a href="http://www.emensuits.com/home.php?cat=164" rel="nofollow"><b>3 piece suits</b></a>],man suit,slacks,tuxedo and many more you can check also at emensuits.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-68367177342372131402011-03-11T06:56:51.988-08:002011-03-11T06:56:51.988-08:00nice post and i hope you will be treated as a best...nice post and i hope you will be treated as a best friends as i treated by my online friends.<br /><br />there are some thing really special tool to <a href="http://getnewfans.com//%22" rel="nofollow"> buy twitter followers </a> and make the face book fans.SEOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01224936405327183092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-34023064099851654092009-06-26T02:31:32.223-07:002009-06-26T02:31:32.223-07:00I had no idea that there was a debate. I didn'...I had no idea that there was a debate. I didn't know anything was "heating up" I think it's absolutely un-necessary. We are all here to help Hollis, we all love her and want the best for her. We are ALL on the same team. It just takes a little brainstorming to figure out what's best. <br /><br />As for other points...<br /><br />I agree that her things are an important key to helping with her returning memories... and we can figure out proper storage. We have to work together. I aggree with what all the posts at the top of the page said. People accumulate too much stuff in life but who is to say which things are important or which things are to be thrown out. I know about the loss of katrina survivors and I agree that is would be very disorienting to lose the things that make your home home. I think her stuff will be very helpful to her in her recovery. I also think keeping the mass of it here is important because this is her home base. Selling her stuff wouldn't be about raising money, but it's costly. As is everything else. I don't think it should be sold and I think there is a very strong potential that we have a safe place for it now. We will figure it out. Diane has the decition making capabilities and has gone through so much in this, and has been so strong for her daughter. But she can't do it all on her own. It's taken all of her family to get her this far. <br /><br />We work together. There is no debate.<br /><br />Hollis is blessed to have such a beautiful network of family and friends on her side. <br /><br />Big love.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-91312153914882201912009-06-25T10:48:56.367-07:002009-06-25T10:48:56.367-07:00Diane is the Primary Caregiver and Mother of Holli...Diane is the Primary Caregiver and Mother of Hollis and it is not up to a Committee about what to do with the Stuff...<br />Diane does not have to apologize for Anything...........<br />Diane, in my opinion, has All decision-making votes.....<br />and We are here to support Her....in Her decisions....<br />whatever choices and decisions She makes are the ones we will support...<br />OnwardAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-20578538065268657302009-06-25T09:15:32.704-07:002009-06-25T09:15:32.704-07:00Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Holli's Belongings
...Wednesday, June 24, 2009<br />Holli's Belongings<br /> <br />I saw on Holli's other blog Friends of Hollis Hawthorne that there is an issue about what will be done with Holli's belongings. I tried to post a comment on that site and was unable to do it. <br />Regarding Holli's storage. I never intended for this to become an issue. I only wanted help finding and seeing what was in her storage. I had planned to start mailing home her personnel belongings along with her clothes, computer and anything I think she would like to save. I only wanted to try to get rid of anything that could be replaced if and when she would need them. Things that we could buy if she ever needed them. I was not the one who brought up the idea of having a yard sale and raising money but when brought to my attention thought it was a good idea instead of just donating it to Goodwill or such. I just did not want to take Holli home and leave her belongings here in California...I think they should be home with her. I am sorry I caused an up heaval.<br />DianeJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01708159241967926649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-54550855573825824812009-06-24T23:01:02.725-07:002009-06-24T23:01:02.725-07:00Diane has posted a clarification around the issue ...Diane has posted a clarification around the issue of Hollis' belongings on the Help Holli Heal blog. For some reason I can't copy it here but please go check it out and if yer a relevant individual get in touch with her to make more sense of the details.<br />I think everyone who loves Hollis just wants what is best for her & also what makes the most sense for creating as effortless as possible a transition into her next phase of healing.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12951725964579750029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-38958643136770062642009-06-22T09:07:40.514-07:002009-06-22T09:07:40.514-07:00Stuff is just stuff, but it would be a wonderful g...Stuff is just stuff, but it would be a wonderful gift to Holli to keep her things for her. It could bring back memories for her and help her to feel like she hasn't lost quite so much. Maybe she'll have no attachment to things from her past or there might be one thing she'll really miss, but we won't know what that one thing is till later. I can keep some things in my attic if it's needed.d'Nahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12852021436638686515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-64486868998972764322009-06-22T08:56:46.460-07:002009-06-22T08:56:46.460-07:00I don't personally know Hollis but I've be...I don't personally know Hollis but I've been following her story and have been able to help a bit financially although not visit (I'm in Texas). Reading the last 3 posts I'd say that they're all valid in the points they bring up. Most constructive solution comes from heatherfly.I know I would be happy to store stuff for Hollis so I imagine she has enough geographically closer friends who would do the same...?Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17059709563813437485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-62449868249649456012009-06-21T22:53:13.854-07:002009-06-21T22:53:13.854-07:00I'd be really bummed if I woke up from a coma ...I'd be really bummed if I woke up from a coma and discovered that all my stuff had been sold without my permission. Especially if it was stuff I cared enough about to keep in paid storage while I was out of the country for an extended period of time. She will already be missing so much of her own life...does she really have to lose all of her personal belongings and household as well? I know it's "just stuff", but it's not always. I've lost my belongings repeatedly (last time to Hurricane Katrina) and I can tell you that it's really disorienting to find yourself suddenly without all those things that make your home your home.<br /><br />Why would her stuff be sold in the first place? Just to get it out of the way? Or to raise money?<br /><br />If it's to raise money, have the garage sale and let us all buy her stuff. We can give it back to her when she wakes up.<br /><br />If its just a simple matter of getting it out of the way, I'm *sure* we can get it stored somewhere indefinitely for her.heatherflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12784784187130593736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-22138773293342685872009-06-21T15:11:43.054-07:002009-06-21T15:11:43.054-07:00thank you for your update.
i agree with the previ...thank you for your update. <br />i agree with the previous comment about her things...<br />i am also wondering ... as i am sure many are ...<br />what happ'd to harrison?elbo350https://www.blogger.com/profile/17909527704341345776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2229713990939334973.post-15056509304761144502009-06-20T09:37:37.854-07:002009-06-20T09:37:37.854-07:00Regarding Holli's storage unit and moving back...Regarding Holli's storage unit and moving back to TN: I'm surprised that she wasn't moved to Tennessee when she was brought back from India. Considering the amount of care that she is going to continue to need and that it really is something that only a parent or a very loving significant other would be willing to provide, I'm glad that she is going to her home of origin. About her unit and things: they are just things. While I think that the things with the most obvious merit should be kept to help her acclimate once she wakes up, at the end of the day it is just stuff. And we all accumulate way too much stuff in our lifetimes anyway. But if you guys don't want it sold, why don't you catalogue all of it and divide it amongst yourselves to keep for her until she is able to reclaim it? I hate that this post said that a debate was heating up over this. I realize that relationships with family members are sometimes tenuous at best, but Diane is under a huge amount of stress, if I had to venture a guess. Doing battle with her over something as insignificant as material things isn't worth it, for any of you. <br /><br />Thank you for the update.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com